Below is a sample of the nineteen characteristics of platonic friendships that can get one in trouble after sustained stress
- Do you save topics of conversation for your friend because you feel they understand you better?
- Do you find yourself looking forward to seeing your friends more than you look forward to seeing your spouse?
- Are you spending money on your friendship for lunches, gifts, coffee, that your spouse is unaware of?
- Are you and your spouse in conflict over this friendship?
- Do you find yourself lying and or manipulating the truth in order to spend more time with this friend?
- Are you hiding receipts, cell phone bills, mail, gifts, and time spent with your friend from your spouse?
- Has your friend shared feelings for you or touched you in a way that created a shiver of infatuation in you?
- Do you do any of the following with this friend: travel, go to entertainment venues, drink alcohol, eat expensive meals, and return to the same hotel together, all in the name of doing business and entertaining clients?