“Fragile feelings. Fragmented relationships. Fractured marriages. Such knotty struggles provide spawning grounds for moral and marital infidelity. Torn Asunder walks the reader into these seldom-mentioned scenes, offering insightful explanations as to why affairs occur, when recovery is possible, and what steps need to be taken to rebuild trust and intimacy. The process is neither pleasant nor easy, but it is realistic, and with God’s help it can work. I especially appreciate the author’s firm confidence that shattered marriages can be healed.”

“As a therapist, I’m constantly confronted with the ravages and tragedies of affairs. In Torn Asunder, Dave Carder has tackled this crucially relevant topic head-on. Not only does he ehlp the reader understand the underlying dynamics that make one vulnerable to an affair, but he also assists couples in the process of rebuilding their relationship after an affair has occurred. this book is a must for any married couple, not only to assist them in dealing with friends who have been involved in affairs but also as a preventative tool for affair-proofing their own marriage.”

This new edition of Torn Asunder will, I believe, help a new generation of those who need its direction in this painful area. Just as it has already done, the book’s timeless and universal principles will continue to minister and heal. Dave Carder not only knows the subject, he lives in integrity as a man so walks his talk. His life, his teaching, his character, and his competency assure the reader that this book will change lives.

Written by long-standing friends of the AACC, these seminary-trained clinicians bring their best insights to Unlocking Your Family Patterns.  These guys know what they are talking about, and this book will guide you on life’s journey so that you don’t repeat what you didn’t like about some of your own family experiences. Starting with famous families of the Bible, you will begin to understand why each of us, in our own families, needs daily help to do things differently. Unlocking Your Family Patterns will walk you through that journey.