Table of Contents
Prologue: A Letter from “The Other Woman”
Section 1: Understanding Extramarital Affairs
1. “What God Hath Joined Together”: In Pursuit of Healing for Shattered Marriages
2. Sorting Out the Chaos: The One-Night Stand and Sexual Addiction
3. Sorting Out the Chaos: The Entangled Affair
4. Causes: Environments That Allow Affairs to Flourish
5. Other Factors Contributing to Infidelity
6. Understand the Recovery: The Infidel’s process
Section 2: Healing from Affairs
7. “What God Hath Joined Together”: In Pursuit of Healing for Shattered Marriages
8. Understanding the Recovery: The Spouse’s Process Why? Deciphering the Message of the Affair
9. Anger in Affairs: Getting Good Out of Getting Mad
10. Can I Trust You Again? Rebuilding Trust
11. “And They Shall Be As One”: Restructuring Intimacy
Section 3: Special Circumstances
12. To Tell or Not to Tell: The Secret Affair
13. Emotional Affairs: Hooked, Played-out, and Desperate for Release
14. When Your Spouse Doesn’t Want You Back: The 90-Day Experiment