Torn Asunder

Infidelity is at crisis level, even within the church.

No marriage is immune despite apparent moral convictions.

Dave Carder wrote Torn Asunder to offer couples hope, healing, and encouragement in the face of adultery. He divides his book into first helping readers understand extramarital affairs and then offering healing for marriages dealing with this betrayal. Excellent resource for pastors, leaders, and lay people.

Now What?

That’s the question thousands of angry, heartbroken people ask every year in the wake of an affair. I you’re asking now what? You’re not alone. Tens of thousands of readers have made Torn Asunder a bestseller (more than 100,000 sold)—and they have benefited from its wise counsel.

Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.

Along the way Carder also answers questions like:

  • Why did this happen?
  • We didn’t actually sleep together. Is it still an affair?
  • Can I trust my spouse again?
  • Should I reveal a secret affair?
  • What if my spouse doesn’t want me back?
  • What do we tell the kids?

Healing won’t be easy.  But Torn Asunder can provide hope, encouragement, and advice on the journey. Take the first step today.